Lets Bring A Child Back Into A Household Full Of Alleged Drugs & Domestic Issues! – Stephanie Marie Dipasquale

Normally we are all about the use of GofundMe Accounts to raise money for the right reasons. Let’s talk about one though that has scared a lot of people recently.

DIPASQUALE STEPHANIE M 1985
Meet Stephanie Marie Dipasquale, Stephanie here started a GoFundMeAccount to raise (Click Here to see the account).

In quotes here we will attached the description of the account.

“Since the phone conversation I had with my attorney I was told to take personal information down.   I’m going to do as my attorney says because My husband and I have full 100% faith in our attorney.  

The problem seems to be that I have put names in my narrative.  Which have now been taken out

OUR daughter has been in DCFS care since 2008.We as parents have jumped thru flaming hoops to get her back. We have completed all services required. DCFS has undergone severe budget cuts, and the caseworker that was pushing for reunification was put in another position within the department. We had a court order for increased visitation, decreased supervision.  

We were then placed with a small agency, Family Service Center.  We had one of the best caseworkers that was working for my families best interest.  Since family service center was a small agency and mainly ran by interns; they couldn’t accommodate the increased visitation order.  So they moved us back to ILLINOIS DCFS.

I, STEPHANIE DIPASQUALE found an ILLINOIS TIMES ARTICLE about the caseworker we received after being placed back with DCFS.   When we brought it to her attention and asked her to remove herself. Our family visits went from being out in the public, to being held at the DCFS office.  And the supervision specialists from an outside agency that our family had always known was replaced by a DCFS SUPERVISION specialist.  One of which felt it was her duty to speak to the foster parents about every single aspect of our visits.  (breaching confidentiality)   She even went as far as to search MY (stephanie’s) social media pages and found I was “friends” with these old specialists.  (Reason for being friends with said specialists was for another source of communication….since they traveled the state doing visits for families, at times we had found this being an easier source of communication, rather than texting)  That way as a mother, I could see if they had read my msgs and whatnot.   After further investigation this DCFS visitation specialist finds that it’s appropriate to be friends with a woman who was at this time our FAMILIES CLINICALLY LICENSED SOCIAL WORKER (how is this appropriate…..we as a family feel it’s inappropriate and also a Conflict of Interest)

In May, 2014 the Springfield Police department started recruiting new officers. Stephanie had found her passion, helping families in Domestic Violence situations. SO I UNDERWENT THE police department ORIENTATION. When the physically abusive caseworker found out, visits were QUICKLY moved to the Springfield Police Station.  We as a family feel they were moved to the police station because I was discovering said caseworkers indescretions, and she had to be the “innocent” one.  

The first visit we had there, our daughter had to watch them frisk and inappropriately violate her mom.  All while the caseworker stood there smiling like she was enjoying the show. It scared the HELL OUT OF our child.  MANY visits including my 7th birthday party of whom NONE OF MY PATERNAL FAMILY could attend was held at the Springfield Police Department. MANY of the visits at the S.P.D. were cut short due to the amount of time it took them to go thru the toys my parents had ALWAYS brought to visits as well as the inappropriate frisking of my parents.  

Considering our child had been diagnosed with MERSA after our first visit at the DCFS office, we found it would be in her best interest to tote her OWN toys to ANY AND ALL visits. 

The last time we saw our beautiful daughter was in August, 2014. Our daughter constantly asks family members where her parents are. She is always told THEY ARE STILL FIGHTING FOR YOU.

Which we are. We won’t give up.  The amount of money we are requesting is only a portion of what we already paid. And more than likely a fraction of what is yet to come considering the response to our appeal has been answered and the only reason they could give for termination of our parental rights is “THEY COULDN’T GET ALONG WITH THE DCFS CASEWORKER.”  Now mind you, as a family we had several different caseworkers and supervision specialists; all of whom if seen in public today….we would greet with a smile, catch up a little and go our separate ways.  (This has actually happened on MORE THAN one occasion)

Now, call me crazy but as a mother….who would get along with a caseworker that PHYSICALLY abused her own foster child.    I’m 110%  positive if she’s able to PHYSICALLY abuse her own foster children and breach code of ethics at home, what would make her reconsider MENTALLY AND EMOTIONALLY abusing of her caseload.  

Until now we have funded our own way, but asking for help isn’t always a bad thing.

During this whole time, we  have worked our asses off to stay sober, stay off welfare, and to maintain a Home for our daughter to come back too.   ALL OF THIS GOING UNRECOGNIZED OF COURSE

We as a family are asking for help to raise the rest of the $3,000 we owe our appeals attorney CURRENTLY, as this same caseworker recommended TERMINATION of our Parental Rights ON 9/1/2015.     And the Judge that disliked our family initially of course followed her recommendation.  We have since turned him into the judicial commission regarding his neglectful acts.  We did try to get the article turned in as evidence stating she couldn’t possibly look for best interest of children.   His response was rather tainted, stating her PERSONAL life has ZERO to do with her Career.  We even went as far as to state she couldn’t follow her own code of ethics as a worker in her own home and that too was dismissed and striken off the record.    (We feel the caseworker and the judge are in cahoots, and work for the CASH FOR KIDS campaign….meaning if the state didn’t have foster children,  they’d loose federal funding, etc…)   ON AVERAGE the state recieves $10,000/month for each child they terminate parental rights too.  We’ve also read and researched that the caseworker receives PERSONALLY a chunk of that money as well.  It’s happening in MANY MANY MANY states throughout the United States.

From the looks of the answer to the appeal, this is only the beginning of what is going to be an uphill battle for OUR child to return home.

ATTACHED is THE ARTICLE WE FOUND.

This is only the beginning for DCFS/CPS reform. Let’s make a change…..Instead of going to Starbucks or McDonald’s donate the $5, so WE can rightfully be reunited with our child.  Thank you from the bottom of our ♡s!!!!

THE DIPASQUALE FAMILY

http://illinoistimes.com/mobile/articles/articleView/id:6477

Now at one point Stephanie had asked Springfield Exposed to look into the situation. As our team investigated we ran into a lot of hurdles and pretty much had to brush this one off as an upset parent.

Here is was we do know though, Stephanie is not new to the court system. From her almost 10 evictions in recent years to numerous Orders of Protections she has had her fair share of civil issues.

We also know she has been arrested 4 times for Domestic Battery, one of those times they counted it as Felony Aggravated Domestic Battery.
DIPASQUALE STEPHANIE M 19851 DIPASQUALE STEPHANIE M 19852 DIPASQUALE STEPHANIE M 19853
Stephanie also has admitted to employees and sources close to her that she “got bad into drugs”.

Nevertheless as this Juvenile Family case is private information no one knows exactly what has happened. The only thing we can tell you is to beware of who you just “donate” your money to.

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19 Comments on "Lets Bring A Child Back Into A Household Full Of Alleged Drugs & Domestic Issues! – Stephanie Marie Dipasquale"

  1. Good luck, you idiot! This is all public information from the court. What a ‘tard!!

  2. Don’t you love when people have word vomit and know nothing about what they are speaking of.

  3. Stephanie DiPasquale | February 19, 2016 at 3:36 pm | Reply

    10 evictions….I’d love to see those. Considering ummmm 7 out of the 10 I successfully won. Keep deframing peoples characters.

  4. How do you deframe someone?

  5. SPRINGFIELD ILLINOIS EXPOSED YOU SHOULD REALLY DO AN INVESTIGATION INTO THE DCFS SYSTEM. I AM NOT SAYING THIS WOMAN IS A SAINT. HOWEVER, MY SISTER HAS BEEN FIGHTING FOR HER KIDS FOR YEARS ALSO AND HAS DONE EVERYTHING TO GET THEM BACK AND THEY WILL NOT GIVE THEM TO HER!!! SHE HAS JUMPED THROUGH HOOPS AND SHE HAS NEVER BEEN ADDICTED TO DRUGS AND HAS NEVER BEEN AN ALCOHOLIC. I DON’T UNDERSTAND WHY DCFS IS THE WAY IT IS! THEY DON’T UNITE FAMILIES THEY TEAR THEM APART!!!

  6. ONE OF THE INVESTIGATORS FOR DCFS PERSONALLY TOLD MY SISTER TO SUE THEM. BUT WHAT GOOD IS THAT WHEN YOU STILL DON’T HAVE YOUR KIDS!

  7. Truthteller2112 | February 25, 2016 at 1:59 am | Reply

    Because the system isn’t set up for people to be re-united with the children. It’s set up to use the funds allocated to keep people employed in the various agencies, and to channel said funds through the mental health, substance abuse, and other “required treatment” channels for the “offending parents”. Usually, but not always, when those resources are exhausted, meaning the case has went on past around 5 years or so, or the parents finally give up and sign over parental rights, the child is then free to be “adopted out” to the “foster family”, which has been the intention from the beginning. Good looking little white adoptable children aren’t easy to come by, you know.. 😉

  8. Truthteller2112 | February 25, 2016 at 2:04 am | Reply

    think about this: does DCFS get more funding if it successfully reunites families..or if it can continue to publish “we saved the child(ren) from the Horror Story Birth Parents and managed to adopt them out to a Lovely Foster Family” endings? Like everything else, with DCFS, it’s follow the money. It’s ALWAYS “Follow the Money”.

  9. Truthteller2112 | February 25, 2016 at 2:07 am | Reply

    this also serves the purpose of culling the birth parents from the welfare rolls. No children equals no cash payouts in the form of Aid to Dependent Children checks. Foster families are required to meet certain..ahem.. “income criteria”.. if you see where this is going.

  10. That definitely makes sense and they are beautiful and white. It’s just sad!!

  11. I’m not defending dcfs. But I just went through all of this. I had my youngest taken and I got him back in 10 months. Maybe you are doing something wrong to not get your kid back.

  12. doesnt matter | April 11, 2016 at 9:41 am | Reply

    I know this woman personally.. N in fact she had not done what she is trying to say she has done to get her baby back.. She is not off drugs..she is addicted big time to k2 she can’t go 5 min with out it.. N if she does she is so hateful you can’t stand to be around her.. They have not done anything the judge has asked them to do.. When it was time for random drug tests instead of going to the probation office and dropping like most would do when ordered to while in court they would go out to there car n smoke more k2 in the courthouse parking lot..I have personally seen court paperwork that says they are not doing what is asked of them… If you actually buckle down n do what you are asked to would never take someone almost 9years to get your baby back.. I also know that from personal experience..

  13. They should never give these children back. Good thing they are getting children out of the hands of meth addicts. She had them legs wide open at 15 loving every second of it.

  14. I fought DCFS for over 5 years to save my grandson from his abusive drug addicted guardian. Despite the facts that I have had his brother and sister for 12 years, offer a stable home life, have tape recorded evidence where she brags about the abuse she pounds down on the boy & her house is a filthy fire trap & structurally unsound. DCFS investigated numerous complaints from many people & closed most of them out as ‘unfounded ‘without doing any investigation. Only after the boy ran away over & over again & we contacted Channel 20 with the videos of his living condtions & the tape recordings of her rants was he placed with us. BUT…& here’s the kicker..When we finally went to court the sleazy bitch of a guardian cried to the judge about how attached she is to him & how she will miss him & was granted every other weekend visits. AND…The judge refused to hear the tapes. WHERE IS THE JUSTICE FOR CHILDREN???

  15. I fought DCFS for over 5 years to save my grandson from his abusive drug addicted guardian. Despite the facts that I have had his brother and sister for 12 years, offer a stable home life, have tape recorded evidence where she brags about the abuse she pounds down on the boy & her house is a filthy fire trap & structurally unsound. DCFS investigated numerous complaints from many people & closed most of them out as ‘unfounded ‘without doing any investigation. Only after the boy ran away over & over again & we contacted Channel 20 with the videos of his living condtions & the tape recordings of her rants was he placed with us. BUT…& here’s the kicker..When we finally went to court the sleazy bitch of a guardian cried to the judge about how attached she is to him & how she will miss him & was granted every other weekend visits. AND…The judge refused to hear the tapes. WHERE IS THE JUSTICE FOR CHILDREN???

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